What makes a drummer stand out above the rest to me is if they are totally devoted to their work. I admire drummers who use their kit as a melodic instrument. Virgil and Terry are so amazing to watch...they become one with their kits and it's like nothing else in the world exists. Magical!
That's not to say that I don't have other drummers whom I admire, and reasons I admire them...That's a pretty good list you've started there....:)
In my humble opinion and taste best drummer in these days is the polyrhythm monster Thomas Haake of Meshuggah. I think he got 4 brains, one for every leg and arm. Break at 1:40 is superhuman
I was impressed also by Ron Jarzombek's brother (both in Spastic Ink metal prog combo).
In my old times favourites, first is Stewart Copeland (one of the very few drummers you recognize from first beat), second Bill Bruford. I like very much also Tim Alexander and Brian Mantia (Primus), both quirky and powerful drummers.